Thanks searcher, but if I said that, she'd presume I was being sarcastic as she knows full well I've got serious doubts..
And slidin', I figured that would be the way to go, I know it's a long game, but I'm getting impatient! I've already dropped in the change of arrangement, but I'm always trying to think of conversations we can have where I don't come across as a negative 'subverter of faith'.....